I hope no one thinks that I have problems. I just posted about the facebook/worker girl and now I am going to post something about a family member. I just love getting advice from people who are totally uninvolved.
I have always been fairly close with my aunt. We all lived with my grandma for a while when I was growing up, and we have kept a close relationship since.
A little over a month ago, we got in a fight over AIM because I finally spoke my peace about what an idiot she can be. We haven't spoken since. For the first few days I felt kinda weird. But now that I have had time to really think about it, I don't really miss talking to her. She is so self-absorbed (without even knowing it) that she probably couldn't tell you anything more than the basic facts about me (even though we used to talk almost every single day). She is judgmental of everyone who isn't Jewish like she is, and she is even judgmental of most people who are. I could go on and on, but I'm sure no one wants to read it.
Since that day, neither of us have tried to speak to the other one. I don't think I would ignore her if she spoke to me, but I have no desire to initiate contact.